Beware the scammers!

Today I saved myself £6000.

I have a dream of buying a camper van and travelling around Europe.  Me, Butch and the dog visiting little French cafes, drinking coffee (or beer, depending on the time of day) and reading the paper.  I can picture it now.

Last night I did a little search on the net and there it was!  My dream van and at a price I could afford.  It was only 7 years old, fantastic spec, beautiful interior…..perfect.

I did a bit more investigating and found that similar vans were priced over twice the price, so that got my suspicions going but I guessed it was just my lucky day.  I emailed the owner of the van via the website it was advertised on and told him I was interested, querying how long the MOT and Tax were valid for.  Late last night I had an email from the ‘owner’ of the van.  It read……..

Hi there, thank you for taking the time and visiting my vehicle.  The VW Transporter is still for sale in excellent condition with no damages or faults.  All necessary documentation available.  No finance.  My current location is inside of the Dreghorn Barracks, Scotland due to my work commitments.  If this is going to be a quick sale I will let it go for £6000 delivered at my costs.  Please let me know if you are still interested in buying in.  Cheers Sebastian.

Fantastic news!  He was even going to deliver the camper for free. Something however didn’t feel quite right but I was so taken with van and I had googled other vans and some were around that price so maybe my gut reaction was just anxiety at spending that amount of money on a vehicle.

I emailed him again and said I was still interested and got another email back which read…….

Hi there, the van comes with 6 months MOT and 6 months tax.  As I’ve said in my previous email I am currently located in Edinburgh, Scotland, inside of the Dreghorn Barracks.  I’m doing a special training program each day and I am not allowed to get out of the unit or give calls whenever I want.  The delivery will take 2 to 3 days depending on your location and its not a problem because I can do it at no cost to you.  Because it is a large transaction, we will complete the deal only using an authorised third party like Google Wallet because I already prearranged the whole process with them, using the Google Safe Pay Solutions (bank to -bank wire transfer) for vehicles.

The money will be sent to Google Wallet, before you will receive the vehicle.  So, you will deposit the payment directly into the Google Wallet agent’s bank account in United Kingdom, either online or at most banks and they will hold and secure your money during the entire transaction.  I repeat, the will hold and insure your money until receipt of the vehicle in good condition and will release the funds to us only after you decide to keep the vehicle and you register it into your name. You will have an inspection period of 7 days, in this time you can check, test and inspect the vehicle  If by any reason the vehicle has any hidden damages or is not like I describe it) you can reject the deal.  In this case Google Wallet will refund you totally and they will deliver the vehicle back.  He added the link to the Google Wallet website here.  Let me know your delivery details (your full name, full address and home phone number) so I can open a transaction case with Google Wallet and declare you as the buyer.  They will contact you with further information regarding payment and delivery but with no obligation to pay.  Regards Sebastian.

Wow! That was a very comprehensive and informative email plus a very presumptuous one too!  Still my gut was telling me something wasn’t right but my head was saying…”he’s in the forces on a special mission, he’s organised Google Wallet, has to be kosher, doesn’t it?

In the meantime I thought I’d just have another gander on the internet before I fully committed to this deal.  Lo and behold there was another camper of similar spec for £5200.  I emailed the owner immediately to ask if it was still available and query how long the tax and MOT were.

I got an email back from a Grace Dasting……

Hello, I was away to my mother-in-law and I just got to a PC and saw your email.  This camper  van has a full service history and all documentation is present and in my name.  It has been stored in undercover storage from new so the exterior is perfect very low miles.  The final price is not negotiable £5200.  My husband died 2 months ago and I was left with it but I don’t even have a drivers license.  I had a buyer just 1 week ago but that person scared me a lot.  He came with 2 friends and wanted to pay me with fake notes.  I was lucky that my father in law was close and he noticed that.  Since I’m getting a lot of messages regarding the sale and I decided to list eBay with a buy now option and whoever wins it will be the next owner.  I assume you already have an account with Ebay if not please register and let me know when you are ready so i can just email you the link.  If you’d like to secure the deal before anybody else does then please buy it on Ebay.  feel free to ask me any questions, I’ll check my email regularly.  I hope to hear back from you soon.  Have a good day.

Poor lady, husband just died, some unscrupulous person trying to con her. What is the world coming to?  I replied saying I was sorry for her loss and being messed about by buyers but could I have the ebay link as I couldn’t find the vehicle when I had searched Ebay.  I had another email which reads…

Hello, after my last experience I’m not welcome visits any more.  The best way to complete this transaction because of the distance problem (I’m in Peterhead, Scotland) the camper van is also here with me, is to use eBay Money Back Guarantee.  They will handle everything for us, including transportation and transfer of the camper van to your name.  You don’t have to pay for anything extra, delivery and registration into your name is included. Here’s what will happen.  I will make a private eBay listing for you.  You click ‘buy it now’ and follow the instruction.  eBay will send you an invoice with all the transaction details and the payment instructions, you secure the funds to eBay, after the funds are secured the delivery will begin and the camper van will arrive in 48 hours.  When the camper van is in your custody you have 3 days to inspect it.  If everything is okay the transaction ends and eBay will release the money to me.  If there is anything wrong you will be fully refunded and I’ll get my camper van back too.  Everything is covered by eBay I get paid only when you confirm you received it.  I need your eBay username so I can send you the link.  I’m waiting for your reply.  Thank you Grace.

Gosh!  Another well thought out procedure and very similar to the last one.  And the poor lady was just been widowed.  Hang on though……how did she know I was some distance from her?  I could be in Scotland for all she knows.  Something wasn’t right here.

I did a quick search on the internet at scams and I had been scammed, well nearly scammed not once but twice!!

How it works.

The vans that I had seen had been legitimately sold on eBay or other sites previously.  The listing has been cloned and the prices reduced dramatically to encourage gullible buyers.  When the potential purchaser contacts the seller they are given a link which although it looks legitimate isn’t at all.  It is a link to their bank account disguised as Google Wallet or eBay.  They need your name and address to make the transaction and bingo they have your well earned cash and there’s no holidays to Europe for you.

I double bluffed Grace Dastings telling her that coincidentally I too was in Peterhead and could I have the location of the van so I could drive by and see it.  Unsurprisingly there was no reply to my email.

So buyers beware!  If something seems to good to be true, unfortunately it probably is.  Don’t let these unscrupulous, dastardly, vile, scumbag scammers get their hands on your hard earned money.  Its much like the warning you get when buying a puppy, make sure you see it with their mum and dad before you buy, well make sure you see your dream vehicle with its owners before you part with your cash!

Signs & Synchronicities

Synchronicity has existed for thousands of years but has been given different names: harbingers, portents and omens for example.  We humans have been making meaningful connections to events for a long time.  Harbingers, portents and omens however all talk of the future.  They are signs of a coming event and were typically left to skilled interpreters to read and decide whether they made good or bad news.  These days we tend to use all three words with negative connotations.  Synchronicity on the other hand is something that tends to be more personal and immediate.

We talk of coincidences and trivialise the meaning of such events.  By saying it is ‘just a coincidence’ takes the magic out of two or more events that seem miraculously connected.  Co meaning together and incidence – incident simply means two events happening together.  Nothing more, nothing less.

It was Carl Jung the Swiss psychiatrist and founder of Analytical Psychology who first used the term synchronicity to explain a acausal connecting principle – meaning that We Are One, and everything is connected, including our minds and inner states and the real physical world around us. Just as the physical world affects us, so we also affect the physical world. Things that happen that seem to have no common cause yet experienced together create a greater meaning than the individual occurrence. Jung was treating a patient in which she had dreamt of a scarab beetle when he heard a noise behind him, like a gentle tapping.  He turned to see a flying insect knocking against the window pane from outside.  He caught the creature in the air as it flew in and it found it to be a scarabaeid beetle the closest relative to a scarab beetle in Northern Europe which contrary to its usual habits had felt an urge to get into a dark room at the very moment the woman was talking of her dream.  

A synchronous event can mean different things to different people.  Whatever happens is how you interpret it that defines the meaning.  The beauty of synchronicity is that when you notice it is means exactly what it is supposed to mean, to you.  Even if your best friend is stood right beside you when you ‘notice’ something they may interpret it in a different way.  They may not see it at all.  It’s what makes synchronicity such a difficult concept to prove scientifically.

Once we are aware of the existence of synchronicity, we begin to see it everywhere. We begin to see meaning in coincidences that used to seem like mere chance. We begin to understand that there is a connection between our psyche and the physical world. This is not something that we can explain in terms of cause and effect, and it’s not useful to us to think about in those terms. It is the sheer symbolic nature of the phenomena that is useful to us. Our unconscious reaches out to our consciousness with these symbols, which represent some knowledge contained in the collective unconscious. If we are open to recognizing and accepting these symbols, it becomes possible for us to consciously “experience” this knowledge in a spiritual sense.

My first experience of synchronicity started with a song – I heard it over and over and it heralded the knowledge that there was spirit was around and helping me.  It started about a year before my then husband and I split up, at the time I did not know that this would happen but I started to hear a song over and over – it was called Someone to Watch Over me from the musical Porgy & Bess.  It was at this period that I became aware that my Dad was trying to make contact with me to help me through this upcoming difficult time, and boy did I receive a lot of help!  I went from being a disbeliever to someone who listened and acted on guidance I was given.

While normally synchronicity is a personal experience, as I have mentioned before, the most amazing synchronicity I have experienced is one that is affecting a huge number of people at the same time and these numbers are getting larger all the time.  I am referring to the 11:11 phenomena. There are many different theories regarding this phenomena I have some of my own but regarding synchronicity it is proof that we are all one and connected as it is happening to so many of us.

I first noticed 11:11 about six years ago which coincided with my spiritual growth.  It started very insidiously and I have no idea how long I saw it until I realised eventually that there was something going on.  When I investigated I found that others were having the same experience and now six years on the amount of people this is happening to has sky rocketed.  When I see 11:11 I am reminded that I am a spiritual being having a physical experience and that we are all connected, it also prompts me and tells me that I am on the right track.   It can also be very reassuring.  A number of years ago I suffered panic attacks whilst driving alone and one day I was having particular problems driving to work and on the verge of returning home when a German car pulled out in front of me with the number plate 1111.  I was amazed and continued my journey.  When I went through a very difficult experience and probably at my lowest ebb I awoke and found that 11 11 had been written on my mirror in the night.  I don’t know by whom or how but it gave me the strength to carry on.

I also become bombarded with words, phrases etc.  I had never heard of Reiki until the word started appearing all over the place.  I would read about it, hear about it everywhere.  This led me to enrol on a Reiki 1 class and have been healing ever since.

If you have ever experienced a time when something going on in your mind coincided strangely with something that happened in the physical world, then you have experienced synchronicity. You suddenly think about someone; the phone rings and they’re on the other end. You dream about someone you haven’t seen in years, and discover that they just died. You hear a name that you’ve never heard before, and suddenly you’re hearing it everywhere. You have an idea that you’ve never thought before, and suddenly that idea is everywhere.

I experience synchronicities not only in songs or visually but in words.

When I decided to go into business with my sister, my heart was telling me it was not the right thing to do, however my head was telling me that it was the perfect opportunity.  Also as soon as the business started I began to get bombarded with the word Phoenix.  At its peak I was hearing, seeing, reading this word several times a day.  I remember telling a work colleague about it and she experienced it with me a number of times in just a few days and it completely freaked her out!  I knew there was a message in there somewhere for me and ultimately as the business and personal relationship with my sister became fraught and upsetting the message became clear – the death and rebirth of the Phoenix – and my painful process through hurt, upset, forgiveness would all become alright in the end – which it did but was  a slow and painful process. Happily that is all behind us and valuable lessons were learned!  Always listen to your heart!!

Once we are aware of the existence of synchronicity, we begin to see it everywhere. We begin to see meaning in coincidences that used to seem like mere chance. We begin to understand that there is a connection between our psyche and the physical world.

So the next time you think gosh that was a coincidence, perhaps it was not so coincidental after all – look into it a bit further and see if there is a message in there for you.  Synchronicity urges you to become more in touch more receptive and also offers hope and guidance

Who do we think we are?

For the past two days I have been knee deep in genealogy researching my family tree.  This has not been an easy task particularly as my Mum was given away in a pub at 3 weeks old!

My Mum was born in January 1943 during World War 2.  She was born in Priory Mount Hospital, Haverfordwest on 8th January (however records at the public records office state she was born on 7th January).  She was abandoned by her mother and left with a lady she had befriended, the landlady at the Horse & Jockey pub in Steynton.   When the landlady shared her plight with one of her regulars he returned home and told his wife.  He was promptly sent him back to retrieve the small baby.  She remained with this kind elderly couple for the rest of her childhood oblivious to the fact that she wasn’t their real daughter, that is until she was about seven and a spiteful child in school told her that the woman she believed was her mother was not her real mother at all.

It is hard to comprehend how it must feel to not know where you come from.  I would imagine that adopted children face similar challenges but as nothing was formally legalised her foster mother faced the insecurity  that my Mum maybe collected by her birth mother at any time.  This never happened, but my mum recalls her foster mother crying when a box of expensive clothes was left on their doorstep when she was about 7 years old.  She believes these clothes may have come from her real mother but that has never been proven.

We had very little to go on but we did have her birth certificate.

Her mothers name is given as Margaret Clark and her fathers as John Clark with an army number which doesn’t seem to exist.  So we had very little to go on.

Some years ago we did some research into Margaret Clark, believing her to be from this area but drew a blank and the search was aborted.  However, yesterday I came across my mothers birth certificate again and decided to start from another angle.  We assumed that John Clark was probably not my mothers birth father but as he was married to Margaret I started to research him using the address in Penarth that appeared on the birth certificate.

I found an obituary on Google for a man named Alfred George Hedley Clark who lived in Westbourne Road, Penarth in 1935. He had a son named Alfred George Clark who I discovered married a Sybil M Rees in 1935.  Parts of the jigsaw started to piece together.  It now seems that John Clark was in fact Alfred and Margaret’s first name was Sybil. Further research into Sybil’s background gave the names of her parents Eleazer and Catherine Rees from Llansamlet. Suddenly I had quite possibly discovered a grandmother, and great grandparents, a great aunt and quite possibly cousins I had never heard of.

We now think Mum may have a sister who was born 3 years before her called Patricia and next week we are travelling to Penarth to mooch around graveyards, call at the house in Westbourne Avenue.  There are still some important questions left to answer and we’re not sure if anyone has them.  Why was she abandoned at 3 weeks old?  Why was she born in Haverfordwest?  Is Alfred her real father?  Does she have any siblings?

Or, have I opened a can of worms?????